Remembering My First Crush: A Journey Through Time and Memories

Crushes are a unique part of growing up. They spark our imagination and help us navigate the complexities of early love. Here are some nostalgic stories and memories of first crushes that have stayed with us through the years.

The Perfect Match

She had beautiful long blonde hair, a face that could light up a room, and quite big ears. However, what truly captured my heart was her personality. She was kind, loving, and funny—a true gem.

“She looked like every woman ever dreamed in the heart of a lonely man,” as Dan Fogelberg once wrote. This description fits my first crush to a T. Blonde, cobalt eyes, an intoxicating smile, and a petite build with a flawless complexion. She was the embodiment of those unforgettable teenage fantasies.

The Handsome Stranger

He had blonde hair, was tall and handsome, with pale skin and sparkling blue eyes. In retrospect, he was the epitome of the handsome stranger. He was my first love, and while I was definitely the choosy type, he caught my eye so fiercely that it was hard to look away.

My dad was watching the movie SPEED, and there he was—Keannu Reeves. My eyes were glued to the screen, and I was smitten. The actor's charm and looks lasted far beyond that movie, and he remains my all-time crush to this day.

The Childhood Star

The Mod Squad was a hit TV series in the '70s, and the show's star, Peggy Lipton, was charming and iconic. Tragically, later in her life, she passed away young. She was the former wife of Quincy Jones and the mother of Rashida and Kidada Jones. Unfortunately, there's no picture of her, but she left a lasting impression on many of us.

The Boy Next door

Crushes don't always have to be famous faces or movie stars. Sometimes, it's the boy or girl from down the street. He had a way of standing out from the crowd with his impressive looks. Aaron was blonde, with a charming smile that turned heads. In the fifth grade, we shared a classroom, and the memory of the first weeks of school fills me with nostalgia. I still remember sitting next to him in that room, feeling thrilled and a bit shy.

A Foreign Love

My first crush from high school was a beautiful, smart, and athletic Filipina girl. She was part of the local Hawaiian culture and entertainment dance group. I was a funny 7th grader with a sense of humor, self-defense skills, and a love for sports. Our camaraderie and shared background in the Army made us a perfect match. She was a hula girl in spirit but so much more to me.

Impression lasting a lifetime, these early crushes shape our memories and form the foundation of our life's stories. They may seem small and insignificant now, but they are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives. Each of these memories, despite the years that have passed, still holds a special place in my heart.

Sometimes, we never forget the first person who captured our hearts. They remind us of that innocent, enchanting feeling of love in its purest form.