Reflections of High School: Mistakes, Lessons, and Regrets

About Me

Back in my high school days, I was a rather introverted and shy girl. Although I don’t regret some of the things I did because they reflect my true self, I do miss out on many opportunities that I could have seized. In this article, I’ll share some of the mistakes I wish I had not made and the lessons I’ve learned from those experiences.

Mistakes and Regrets

Looking back, here are some of the things I wish I had done differently and the experiences I regret:

1. Not Making Many Friends

I only had one close friend during my high school years. We would often discuss our studies, but as time went on, we spent less time together. Now, those high school days seem like they were filled with missed opportunities for social interaction.

2. Missing School Trips

I didn’t go on any school trips, and now those experiences seem like they would have been a lot of fun. I missed out on many social opportunities and memories that I now wish I had had.

3. Being Strict Towards Classmates

As the class monitor for consecutive two years, I was often strict with my classmates. This was a mistake because it created a tense environment and didn’t necessarily help improve academic performance.

4. Judging Classmates From Appearance and Friend Circle

I judged my classmates based on their appearance and friend circle. Now, I realize the importance of treating everyone with respect and understanding.

5. Thinking I Was the Smartest

I misguidedly thought I was the smartest student. It took a while for me to realize that this was not the case and there was always room for growth and learning.

6. Not Asking for Help With Studies

I never asked for help with my studies, which limited my knowledge and understanding. I wish I had sought assistance to broaden my horizons.

Lessons Learned

However, there are certain actions that I do not regret:

1. Saying “NO” When Necessary

I always said “NO” if it felt like the appropriate response. This helped me maintain my integrity and personal boundaries.

2. Avoiding Pointless Relationships

I never got into any pointless relationships. These relationships would have been time-consuming and potentially harmful to my personal growth.

3. Being Unbiased and Treating Everyone Equally

Being the class monitor, I was unbaised and treated everyone equally. My classmates often perceived me as a “villain,” but I love and still love being unbaised and fair.

4. Focusing on Studies

I spent more time on my studies and improved my academic performance. This was a wise decision and made me more knowledgeable and confident.

5. Living on My Own Terms

I lived on my own terms, which gave me the freedom to make my own choices and grow as an individual.

6. Spending Time With Myself

I spent more time with myself, which helped me understand myself better and led to personal growth.

Reflections and Improvement

Overall, my high school days were challenging, but I learned a lot from those experiences. These days, I am focused on my self-discovery and growth. I strive to learn from my past mistakes and continue to evolve as a person.

As for my future, I can only hope that I avoid making the same mistakes and continue to learn and grow. For now, I am content with the lessons I have learned and the person I have become.

Some Contemporary Regrets

Here are a few more things I wish I had done differently back then:

1. Never Being Able to Afford a Car

I graduated high school and never managed to afford my own car. This regret sticks with me, as I feel like I missed out on many opportunities because of it. It's a reminder to always prioritize financial independence.

2. Not Eating Enough

My diet during my high school years was less than ideal, with many only having one meal a day. I now know that maintaining a healthy diet is important for both physical and mental well-being.

3. Not Having a Bank Account

When I was younger, my parents did not allow me to open a bank account. Looking back, I regret this decision because it limited my financial independence. I now handle my finances with more confidence and trust in my abilities to manage money responsibly.